Saturday, April 19, 2008
Went for cellgroup ytd.
It was awesome(=
READY TO MERGE(realationship)
Am I ready?
[1] MONEY
Muz have the money to spare in a relationship
[2]TIME
Muz be willing to spend time with one another
[3]MATURITY
Muz be mature enough(covers lots of areas)
-Understanding
-Thinkings
-Prospect of sexuality
[4] Age
age : does not = to maturity
Muz be of the right age and maturity before commiting.
[5]Spiritual Maturity
Relationship is not a bed of roses, in quarel, God is still good.
Cannot backslide juz becoz of small things like quarelling.
With all these,
Commitment is required.
Eg,
Got money no commitment also wont spend on you.
Got time no .."......
**Intimacy is a reward of commitment
5 Truths of commitment
1)Everything in life build upon commitment.
*Spirtual commitment
*Family commitment
*Academic commitment
Wad you focus on will become the strongest,
Wad u neglect will become your weakest.
2)Commitment is progresive
Eg.(Primary 1-6)
U wouldn want to be stuck at where you are.
3)Commitment is initiaited by passion or affection
Love makes us take the first step.
4)Long term commitment is a result of DECISION not emotion
Affection and passion will die one day, it is temporary.
Decision will make it work.(Relationship or spiritual)
Muz stick to a decision u make.
5)Commitment requires sacrifice.
Our salvation is free, Becoz God paid a price.
Jianfeng share a chicken and pig joke.
Got this pig and chicken went into church.
Den dey saw a booth "Help for the needy"
Den dey went forward and see.
Chicken : Let's help them prepare breakfast for the needy.
Chicken: Why not i give them my egg, u give them your bacon?
Pig: .. lidat is u participate, i commit.
Haha, i never hear this joke before.
Kingdom of heaven is build upon love,
Church does not forbid relationship
[[Matt 6:31-34]]
Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven and all
shall be addded unto u.
[[Prov 3: 5-6]]
Seek the will of God in everything
In your life there will be a cross road.
but when u seek God and make a decision, Godly decision,
U will be on the right path and eventually towards heaven.
AMELIA RIANE GOH
MY ESCAPE..
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MY ESCAPE..
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